submissive… but not to you

 Trigger warning (sexual abuse/non- consent/violence) Her: Don’t put yourself in that position anymore Me: Don’t put myself in that position denotes that I could have prevented it by being what…clairvoyant. Damn my lack of ESP now I just have PTSD. Why wasn’t I born a Betazoid!? For reference the “position” was a date with someone…

Confessions from the rabbit hole: Kink

I was recently asked the following question:  “How has kink helped you in your day to day life?”  It’s a question I get asked often by people who know me and some who don’t.  Although its most often phrased as: “Why the hell would you do that?” and quickly followed with the  business card of…